Cognitive Dissonance – The Battle Between What We Think, Feel, and Do

Cognitive Dissonance – The Battle Between What We Think, Feel, and Do

by | Sep 25, 2024 | Dialectical Behavior Therapy Program

On National Psychotherapy Day, we celebrate the transformative power of therapy in Counselling individuals confront and overcome the internal battles that shape their mental well-being. Cognitive dissonance is one of many areas where therapy can provide valuable insights and tools for growth. By understanding the conflicts between what we think, feel, and do, therapy empowers individuals to find harmony centered within themselves.

This day is a reminder of the importance of mental health and the crucial role that psychotherapists play in guiding us through life’s most complex emotional and psychological challenges. Whether dealing with cognitive dissonance or any other mental health issue, therapy offers a path toward healing, self-discovery, and a balanced life.
 

What is Cognitive Dissonance? 

Cognitive dissonance is a psychological phenomenon that occurs when there is a conflict between our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It’s that uncomfortable tension we experience when our actions don’t align with our beliefs, or when we hold two contradictory ideas at once. This mental friction can impact our well-being, triggering stress, anxiety, and confusion. But it can also be a powerful motivator for change, pushing us to resolve these internal conflicts and restore balance.

Cognitive dissonance was first introduced by social psychologist Leon Festinger in 1957. He proposed that people are driven by a need for consistency between their beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors. When there is a mismatch, it creates dissonance, leading to discomfort that we are naturally inclined to reduce.

For instance, imagine you believe in the importance of living a healthy lifestyle but frequently indulge in junk food. This creates dissonance between your actions (eating unhealthily) and your belief (valuing health). The discomfort from this inconsistency might prompt you to make a change, either by adjusting your behavior (eating healthier) or by rationalizing your actions (“It’s okay to indulge occasionally”).

Causes of Cognitive Dissonance
– Inconsistent beliefs
– Contradictory values
– Disparity between thoughts and actions

Common Examples of Cognitive Dissonance

Smoking: A smoker knows the health risks of smoking but continues the habit. The conflict arises between the behavior (smoking) and the belief (smoking is harmful). To reduce dissonance, the person may downplay the risks, avoid health information, or attempt to quit.

Procrastination: You know you should be working on a project but choose to binge-watch a TV series instead. This creates a clash between your belief (valuing productivity) and your behavior (procrastination), leading to feelings of guilt or anxiety.

Consumer Decisions: After making a significant purchase, people often experience “buyer’s remorse.” They may try to justify their choice by seeking out information that supports their decision and ignoring any that contradicts it. 

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The importance of cognitive dissonance in mental health

The Role of Cognitive Dissonance in Mental Health

Cognitive dissonance plays a crucial role in psychotherapy and mental health. When left unresolved, the discomfort caused by dissonance can contribute to stress, anxiety, and even depression. The need to constantly rationalize or justify behaviors that conflict with deeply held values or beliefs can drain mental energy and negatively impact self-esteem.

Conversely, recognizing and addressing cognitive dissonance is an essential part of personal growth and healing. In psychotherapy, clients often confront dissonance when they face aspects of themselves or their lives that don’t align with their self-image or values. Therapy provides a safe space to explore these inconsistencies, examine why they exist, and find healthier ways to resolve them.
 

How Therapy Helps in Reducing Cognitive Dissonance

Self-awareness: Therapy encourages self-reflection, helping individuals identify the source of their cognitive dissonance. A therapist might ask clients to examine situations where their thoughts, feelings, or behaviors are misaligned, guiding them toward a deeper understanding of the conflict.

Challenging Core Beliefs: Therapy often involves exploring long-held beliefs or assumptions that may no longer serve a person. For instance, someone might hold the belief, “I’m not good enough,” but their achievements and experiences contradict that belief. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), in particular, focuses on identifying and challenging irrational or unhelpful beliefs.

Behavioral Changes: Once clients recognize the cognitive dissonance, they can begin working on behavioral changes to restore balance. For example, someone struggling with procrastination might set small, achievable goals to align their actions with their belief in productivity.

Emotional Regulation: Dissonance often triggers negative emotions like guilt, shame, or anxiety. Therapy helps individuals develop emotional regulation strategies to cope with these feelings in healthier ways, reducing the distress caused by dissonance.

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How GenPsych Can Help

At GenPsych Facility, we understand the complexities of cognitive dissonance and its impact on mental health across different age groups. Our tailored services aim to support children, adolescents, and adults in navigating their unique challenges. Here’s how we can help:

Children (Ages 8-12)
For younger children, cognitive dissonance often manifests in conflicts between their developing beliefs and their behaviors. GenPsych offers specialized therapy that focuses on:

Play Therapy: We use play as a medium to help children express their feelings and thoughts, making it easier for them to understand the conflicts they face.
Skill-Building: Our therapists teach coping skills and emotional regulation strategies, helping children manage discomfort and build resilience.
Parental Involvement: We engage parents in the therapeutic process, providing guidance on how to support their child in reconciling conflicting thoughts and behaviors.

Adolescents (Ages 13+)
Adolescence is a critical time for identity formation, often leading to increased cognitive dissonance as teens navigate peer pressure, self-image, and personal beliefs. GenPsych’s approach includes:

Individual Therapy: Our therapists work one-on-one with adolescents to explore their beliefs and actions, helping them understand the root causes of their dissonance.
Group Therapy: We offer group sessions where teens can share experiences, fostering connection and support as they tackle similar challenges.
Life Skills Workshops: These workshops help teens develop practical skills to manage stress, improve decision-making, and align their behaviors with their values.

Adults
For adults, cognitive dissonance can arise from various life transitions, relationships, or career changes. GenPsych provides:

Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This evidence-based approach helps clients identify and challenge irrational beliefs, guiding them toward healthier thought patterns and behaviors.
Support Groups: We facilitate support groups where adults can connect with others facing similar struggles, promoting a sense of community and shared understanding.
Holistic Approaches: Our therapists may incorporate mindfulness and stress management techniques to help clients cope with the emotional turmoil that dissonance can create.

Trusting Our Services
At GenPsych, we pride ourselves on providing compassionate, evidence-based mental health care tailored to the needs of children, adolescents, and adults. Our team of experienced professionals is dedicated to helping individuals navigate the challenges of cognitive dissonance and mental health, empowering them to achieve greater emotional balance and well-being.

By trusting GenPsych, you’re choosing a partner in mental health that prioritizes your unique journey. Together, we can work toward understanding and resolving the internal conflicts that may be holding you back from living your best life.

Conclusion
Cognitive dissonance can feel overwhelming, but with the right support, it can lead to profound personal growth.

At GenPsych, we’re committed to guiding children, adolescents, and adults through their mental health challenges, helping them find harmony between their thoughts, feelings, and actions. Celebrate Psychotherapy Day with us and take the first step toward a more balanced, fulfilling life. 

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My whole experience at GenPsych was wonderful. The individual sessions with my therapist was my favorite experience at GenPsych. My therapist was able to get to know me just a little bit more and she was able to guide me every week on exactly what I needed to do in order to keep making progress.

I feel validated coming to this program/facility. I had reservations before starting being as I have never done treatment like this before, but I have been very pleasantly surprised to discover that it is nothing that I had dreamt up in my mind. I am learning that I am not alone and that my mental health can be treated and that I can one day live a much happier life.

The team really listened and have been helping us with a plan post discharge which has proven to be really beneficial. They care very much, are very attentive and responsive to our child's needs

The therapists are immensely helpful, and the techs are always willing to help you out. Everyone is really supportive. My favorite experiences are the helpfulness of therapists during groups and session to lead me in the right direction.

My therapist is wonderful she listen and give me great feedback and very helpful and understanding with all my heavy mental and health issues. I’m so happy I took the steps to get the help I needed and so happy to have found GenPsych.

The best experiences at G.A.P is just being with my peers and my community. It is very nice having a safe environment to get adjusted to the "real world" after residential

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